10 Rules Happy Couples Follow When They Argue

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2. Really Listen To Your Partner

Even when you don’t understand or don’t agree with your spouse, you can still respect them. Try putting yourself in their shoes in an attempt to understand where they are coming from. Really listen to your partner. Turn your body towards them, turn off the TV and your phone, and really listen to what they are trying to tell you.

 

3. Don’t Attack The Person, Address The Problem

Always remember that your partner is on your side! You should always be supportive and respect your partner, even when you don’t agree with them. It’s easy to become frustrated and call your partner names or accuse them of being the problem. Try to make the problem itself be the focus of your discussion, and remember that your main goal is to find a solution together. If you have to choose between not hurting your partner and being right, choose your partner.

 

4. Encourage Honesty When Talking

If you fly off the handle every time your partner says something you disagree with, why should you be surprised when they stop talking to you? Encourage your partner to be honest and transparent in how they feel. Make them feel safe when they talk to you. Even if you disagree, you can tell them you want to hear what they have to say and that you will love them anyway.

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