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5. Stop with the Negative Thoughts
Most of us have a little tape in our heads that plays the same few messages over and over, all day long. These messages were programmed into us at some point during our lives and they can be very damaging or they can be positively affirming. Negative self-talk includes things like:
- I can’t do anything right
- I’m fat and ugly
- I’m so clumsy
- I’m so stupid
These types of thoughts lead to feelings of anger, frustration, anxiety, depression, and irritability. They can also lead to overeating, insomnia, anorexia or bulimia. It can be very difficult to change this “tape” in your head, but it can be done. Next time you find yourself thinking something negative, replace it with something positive, then repeat that positive thought three or four times. For example; if you think “I can’t do anything right”, stop and say to yourself “I might make mistakes but I do plenty of things really well.” Repeat the end of that phrase “I do plenty of things really well” several times. It takes time, but you can change that negative tape for a more positive tape.
When you feel better about yourself you increase productivity, which will reduce stress, which can lead to a longer (and happier) life. Laugh often and surround yourself with positive people.